When it comes to approaching women, most guys tend to freeze up…
They look at the woman that they like, brave themselves to make the initial contact, and then turn to ice completely like the proverbial deer in the headlights.
But who can blame them? Without a doubt,
approaching women is definitely one of the hardest things a guy will
ever have to do in a lifetime.
(If you’re having bouts of approach anxiety, trust me, you’re not alone.)
And it’s definitely not your fault either.
You see, it’s all rooted in your psychology – and it’s something that every guy is born with.
For one, the mere thought of going up to a girl brings about various fears… such as the fear of (negative) response and the fear of rejection.
After all, you have absolutely no idea whether a girl will actually welcome your approach or shun it completely.
And guess what?
Fortunately, there are ways out there on how to approach a girl that almost always bring about a positive response!
Keep reading to find out what you have
to do to get the results that you want every time you approach a girl
that you like. Call it the fail-proof Shogun Method way if you must.
the good news is beautifull women can be found anywhere be at school, in the bus, in the street, at work, at a gym, in the club every where.Now this method presumes that you already know Fractionation – the technique which Derek Rake’s Shogun Method students use to make women fall in love with them in 15 minutes or less upon the approach. If you haven’t done so already, watch this video, and then come back. (You’ll need to enter your primary email address because the link to the video is emailed to you.)
First, make eye contact with her.
One of the biggest reasons why guys get rejected by girls is because they don’t make eye contact with them first.
Why? Well, it’s quite simple: if you
don’t make eye contact first, girls may feel vulnerable… because they
will feel like you snuck up on them when they weren’t ready for it in
any way.
Don’t creep her out!
Now after you made eye contact with her, what’s next?
Pretty simple. After you catch a girl’s attention, show her a slight smile.
Here’s why you do that: this smile will be your way to find out if a girl is interested in you or not and whether she is open to being approached or not.
This is the “come-on bait” which you’ll use to see if she bites.
If she is open to your approach, she should smile back.
If she keeps a blank look on her face
after you smile or if she looks away right away, then she probably
doesn’t want to be approached.
(Don’t instantly take it to heart, though. She might just be having a bad day. Move on.)
But if she smiles back, then you have to start focusing on your body language.
You see, body language happens to be absolutely vital if you want to effectively approach a girl and succeed.
A lot of guys approach girls with their shoulders slumped and their nerves stuck in their throats.
Unfortunately, girls can quickly sense when guys are nervous and are most likely to reject them if they are.
So you’ve physically approached your target, and she seems to be receptive to you. What do you say then?
Answer: to start your conversation, just say something simple like “Hi” and ask for her name.
After that, the conversation should flow on its own if you have mastered Fractionation.
Remember to build up sufficient rapport with her before using
Fractionation – otherwise you’ll just sound like a creepy weirdo.
Here’s a pro tip: when you use Fractionation, remember to “stack” your conversation topics and give her both emotional ups and downs when you talk to her.

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